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"Be careful the friends you choose for you will become like them"

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Social life isn’t just companionship here; it’s a slow-moving merger. W. Clement Stone, a businessman who built a fortune and preached upbeat self-help, frames friendship as an acquisition with long-term liabilities. “Be careful” lands like due diligence, a warning from someone who thinks in inputs and outputs. Friends aren’t merely people you like; they’re behavioral gravity.

The line works because it sneaks a hard truth through plain language: identity is porous. The subtext is less moralistic than strategic. Stone isn’t scolding you for enjoying the “wrong crowd” so much as insisting that proximity is training. You absorb vocabulary, appetites, standards, risk tolerance. If you spend your time with cynics, you’ll learn to narrate your life as failure. If you spend it with strivers, you’ll start treating effort as normal. The quote compresses social psychology into a single business-friendly principle: culture eats character, and culture is contagious.

Context matters. Stone’s era prized self-made mythology, but it also ran on networks: sales teams, civic clubs, church groups, mentorship ladders. In that world, “friends” often doubled as partners, references, and informal board members shaping your decisions. The sentence reads like a management maxim disguised as personal advice: curate your circle the way you’d curate a company’s leadership, because your environment will do the coaching you don’t.

There’s an edge to it, too. It implies your friends are less unique souls than shaping forces, which can slide into instrumental relationships. Still, as a piece of pragmatic persuasion, it’s clean: choose your influences before they choose you.

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W. Clement Stone

W. Clement Stone (May 4, 1902 - September 3, 2002) was a Businessman from USA.

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