"Be content with what you are, and wish not change; nor dread your last day, nor long for it"
About this Quote
The phrase “wish not change” can sound like complacency until you catch the Roman context: Marcus is talking about the self you actually control - your character, your judgments, your capacity to act decently under pressure. The subtext is brutal: you’re going to change anyway, mostly through loss, age, and circumstance. So don’t build your identity on the fantasy of a future, improved version of you that will finally feel safe. Practice steadiness now.
Then he pairs two opposite temptations: “nor dread your last day, nor long for it.” Fear of death and romanticizing death are mirror-image escapes from the same present-tense responsibility. Dreading the end turns life into a countdown; longing for it turns life into a waiting room. Marcus aims at the middle stance: accept the ending as ordinary, which frees you to treat today as consequential.
It works because it’s emotionally unsentimental. The line doesn’t flatter the reader with “you deserve.” It insists: your job is to meet reality without theatrics - not to outrun it, not to surrender to it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Contentment |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Aurelius, Marcus. (2026, January 14). Be content with what you are, and wish not change; nor dread your last day, nor long for it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-content-with-what-you-are-and-wish-not-change-659/
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Aurelius, Marcus. "Be content with what you are, and wish not change; nor dread your last day, nor long for it." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-content-with-what-you-are-and-wish-not-change-659/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Be content with what you are, and wish not change; nor dread your last day, nor long for it." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-content-with-what-you-are-and-wish-not-change-659/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.










