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Creativity Quote by Lauryn Hill

"Be honest, brutally honest. That is what's going to maintain relationships"

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Brutal honesty is a dare dressed up as relationship advice, and Lauryn Hill knows exactly how volatile that dare can be. The line isn’t preaching niceness; it’s rejecting the soft diplomacy that keeps couples, friends, and collaborators afloat in the short term while quietly stockpiling resentment. “Brutally” is the tell. It frames truth as something with teeth, the kind of candor that risks making you the villain in the moment so you don’t become a ghost later.

Hill’s cultural context matters: she emerged from an era where image management was becoming a second career, especially for Black women in entertainment, who were expected to be both palatable and endlessly composed. Brutal honesty reads as a refusal of that performance. It also echoes the emotional economy of her work, where confession is currency and self-scrutiny is part of the beat. She’s not offering therapy-speak about “communication”; she’s advocating a truth ethic that can survive fame, pressure, and the temptation to curate your feelings into something more marketable.

The subtext is a warning: relationships don’t collapse because people fight; they collapse because people edit. Hill implies that real intimacy requires letting someone see the unflattering cut of your thoughts, before those thoughts metastasize into contempt. It’s a hard promise, too, because brutality can be a cover for cruelty. The quote works because it’s both instruction and indictment: if the truth ends a relationship, maybe the relationship was already living on borrowed time.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hill, Lauryn. (2026, January 16). Be honest, brutally honest. That is what's going to maintain relationships. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-honest-brutally-honest-that-is-whats-going-to-94915/

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Hill, Lauryn. "Be honest, brutally honest. That is what's going to maintain relationships." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-honest-brutally-honest-that-is-whats-going-to-94915/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Be honest, brutally honest. That is what's going to maintain relationships." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-honest-brutally-honest-that-is-whats-going-to-94915/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Lauryn Hill (born May 26, 1975) is a Musician from USA.

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