"Be nice to people on your way up because you'll meet them on your way down"
About this Quote
The intent is less moral instruction than social physics. The theater, like any status economy, runs on informal power: stagehands, producers, critics, rivals, patrons. The person you dismiss as irrelevant today can be the gatekeeper tomorrow. Mizner’s subtext is that hierarchy is temporary, memory is not. Courtesy becomes a kind of long-term insurance policy against your future self.
What makes it work is the compact narrative packed into “on your way up” and “on your way down.” It implies ambition (there is an “up”), ego (you might stop being nice), and humiliation (there will be a “down”). The symmetry is the joke; the menace is the lesson. It’s cynicism dressed as etiquette, warning that “networking” isn’t just collecting contacts when you’re winning, it’s not burning bridges when you’re feeling untouchable.
In Mizner’s era of hustlers and headline-makers, this reads like a survival rule for fickle industries. In ours, it doubles as a commentary on the internet’s permanent audience: the people you step over don’t disappear; they screenshot.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mizner, Wilson. (2026, January 15). Be nice to people on your way up because you'll meet them on your way down. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-nice-to-people-on-your-way-up-because-youll-10207/
Chicago Style
Mizner, Wilson. "Be nice to people on your way up because you'll meet them on your way down." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-nice-to-people-on-your-way-up-because-youll-10207/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Be nice to people on your way up because you'll meet them on your way down." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-nice-to-people-on-your-way-up-because-youll-10207/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








