"Be sure of yourself, don't let anyone bully you, be a strong and independent woman or boy"
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The most revealing move is the refusal to gender empowerment neatly. “Woman or boy” is clunky on purpose, a quick corrective to the default script that toughness belongs to men and confidence belongs to women only when it’s palatable. She’s expanding the category of who gets protection and agency: not just women, not just men, but the people who are most likely to be cornered and shamed into silence. That awkward phrasing signals a cultural shift happening in real time, where masculinity can include vulnerability and resilience without the old macho performance.
“Don’t let anyone bully you” is the core engine here. Polizzi’s fame era coincided with the rise of social media pile-ons and tabloid cruelty as entertainment. The subtext is: you will be judged no matter what, so you might as well build an internal authority no one can vote off the island. Independence, in this framing, isn’t solitary pride; it’s opting out of other people’s permission structures.
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Polizzi, Nicole. (2026, January 18). Be sure of yourself, don't let anyone bully you, be a strong and independent woman or boy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-sure-of-yourself-dont-let-anyone-bully-you-be-20774/
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Polizzi, Nicole. "Be sure of yourself, don't let anyone bully you, be a strong and independent woman or boy." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-sure-of-yourself-dont-let-anyone-bully-you-be-20774/.
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"Be sure of yourself, don't let anyone bully you, be a strong and independent woman or boy." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/be-sure-of-yourself-dont-let-anyone-bully-you-be-20774/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









