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Daily Inspiration Quote by Søren Kierkegaard

"Be that self which one truly is"

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A command that sounds like a greeting-card slogan turns, in Kierkegaard’s hands, into a spiritual dare. "Be that self which one truly is" isn’t a permission slip for self-expression; it’s an indictment of how easily a person becomes a placeholder for other people’s scripts. In 19th-century Copenhagen, where bourgeois respectability and official Christianity offered ready-made identities, Kierkegaard aims at the soothing lie that you can be "a good person" by simply fitting in.

The line works because it treats the self as a task, not a fact. "Truly" does heavy lifting: it implies you’re already living as a counterfeit version, assembled from social expectation, status, and fear. Kierkegaard’s larger project is to expose the ways we dodge the pressure of existing - how we hide in the crowd, in careerism, in polite morality, even in religion performed as habit. So the imperative isn’t narcissistic; it’s anti-evasive.

Subtext: authenticity costs. To become oneself means choosing, committing, and accepting anxiety as the price of freedom. It means trading the comfort of being "understood" for the risk of standing alone, answerable to an inward demand you can’t outsource to institutions or consensus. That’s why the sentence is so bare. It has the clipped force of a moral ultimatum: stop performing your life. Start living it, with consequences.

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Later attribution: Kierkegaard's Influence on the Social Sciences (Jon Bartley Stewart, 2011) modern compilationISBN: 9781409434900 · ID: e5erLSkdKKgC
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... Søren Kierkegaard - ' to be that self which one truly is . ' ' '48 Rogers devotes the rest of this important lecture to an explication of the meaning of this maxim ; but exact references to Kierkegaard's works are virtually absent ...
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Søren Kierkegaard

Søren Kierkegaard (May 5, 1813 - November 11, 1855) was a Philosopher from Denmark.

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