"Be who you are and be that well"
About this Quote
The subtext is quietly anti-heroic. He doesn't ask you to be extraordinary. He asks you to be faithful to your actual station, limits, and duties, then do it with excellence. In his world, "who you are" isn't a therapeutic essence discovered by introspection; it's a concrete set of relationships and obligations (parent, merchant, servant, widow, student) where grace is supposed to land. "Be that well" is the sting. It shifts the focus from identity as proclamation to identity as practice, from self-expression to disciplined attention.
Rhetorically, the quote works because it balances permission with accountability. The first clause frees you from comparison and spiritual envy; the second blocks complacency. It's a sentence that flatters no one, yet offers relief: you don't have to become someone else to live meaningfully. You do have to stop being sloppy about the life you already have.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Compass Within (Sonia Lara, 2008) modern compilation
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