"Be who you are and be that well"
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In 10 words, Saint Francis de Sales smuggles an entire spiritual program past your ego. "Be who you are" sounds like modern self-branding, but his intent is almost the opposite: stop cosplay-ing holiness, stop performing someone else's vocation, stop treating your temperament like a defect that needs an upgrade. De Sales, a bishop and key figure in the Counter-Reformation, wrote for laypeople trying to live devoutly without fleeing into monasteries. The line is pastoral triage: sanctity is not a costume; it's craft.
The subtext is quietly anti-heroic. He doesn't ask you to be extraordinary. He asks you to be faithful to your actual station, limits, and duties, then do it with excellence. In his world, "who you are" isn't a therapeutic essence discovered by introspection; it's a concrete set of relationships and obligations (parent, merchant, servant, widow, student) where grace is supposed to land. "Be that well" is the sting. It shifts the focus from identity as proclamation to identity as practice, from self-expression to disciplined attention.
Rhetorically, the quote works because it balances permission with accountability. The first clause frees you from comparison and spiritual envy; the second blocks complacency. It's a sentence that flatters no one, yet offers relief: you don't have to become someone else to live meaningfully. You do have to stop being sloppy about the life you already have.
The subtext is quietly anti-heroic. He doesn't ask you to be extraordinary. He asks you to be faithful to your actual station, limits, and duties, then do it with excellence. In his world, "who you are" isn't a therapeutic essence discovered by introspection; it's a concrete set of relationships and obligations (parent, merchant, servant, widow, student) where grace is supposed to land. "Be that well" is the sting. It shifts the focus from identity as proclamation to identity as practice, from self-expression to disciplined attention.
Rhetorically, the quote works because it balances permission with accountability. The first clause frees you from comparison and spiritual envy; the second blocks complacency. It's a sentence that flatters no one, yet offers relief: you don't have to become someone else to live meaningfully. You do have to stop being sloppy about the life you already have.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Evidence: o agree to be bound by the terms of this agreement there are a few things that y Other candidates (3) The Compass Within (Sonia Lara, 2008) compilation95.0% ... Be who you are and be that well.” —Saint Francis de Sales One night I got inspired through my readings and I will... Anatole France (Saint Francis de Sales) compilation37.5% e quon ne leur fait pas crédit it is only the poor who pay cash and that not fro El ingenioso hidalgo Don Quijote de la Mancha [microform] .. (Cervantes Saavedra, Miguel de, 1547-1616, 1900) primary29.5% haberle dicho muchas cosas acerca de caiujfinias de cera encendidas que le del |
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