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Life & Wisdom Quote by J.B. Priestley

"Be yourself is about the worst advice you can give to some people"

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Priestley’s line lands like a polite slap: it takes a feel-good slogan and treats it as the lazy moralism it often is. “Be yourself” sounds liberal, humane, even brave, but he’s pointing out how easily it becomes an excuse to stop growing. The joke is structural. Advice that pretends to be universally empowering is, in practice, selectively useful. For people already disciplined, reflective, or constrained by unfair expectations, “be yourself” can be permission to breathe. For people who are selfish, cruel, volatile, or simply unformed, it’s a congratulatory stamp on their worst impulses.

The subtext is a critique of modern sincerity as a substitute for ethics. Priestley isn’t arguing for falseness; he’s arguing for accountability. The self isn’t a sacred artifact you must preserve untouched. It’s a draft. When culture tells you your “authenticity” is the highest good, it quietly demotes other obligations: restraint, kindness, competence, responsibility. His phrasing - “some people” - is the killer detail. It narrows the claim just enough to feel undeniable, and it invites the reader to do a slightly uncomfortable inventory: am I in that group, or do I know someone who is?

Context matters. Priestley wrote across a century that watched individualism harden into consumer identity and personal “truth” get marketed back to the public. The line reads like an early warning against a culture that mistakes self-expression for self-improvement, and therapy-speak for character. It’s wit with a spine: grow up, don’t just “show up.”

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TopicSarcastic
Source
Later attribution: The Wit and Wisdom of the North (Rosemarie Jarski, 2009) modern compilationISBN: 9781407029573 · ID: SrBDPz1e8UAC
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... Be yourself is about the worst advice you can give to some people. J.B. Priestley Not only don't I know who I am, but I'm very suspicious of people who do know who they are. I am sometimes ten or twelve people a day, and sometimes four ...
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Abraham Lincoln (J.B. Priestley) compilation42.0%
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J.B. Priestley

J.B. Priestley (September 13, 1894 - August 14, 1984) was a Writer from United Kingdom.

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