"Beauty set up distance between other people and me. It warped their behavior"
About this Quote
"Set up distance" is active phrasing. Beauty isn't merely noticed; it engineers a boundary. Bergen implies she didn't have to choose isolation for it to happen. Others did it for her, by treating her as an image to manage rather than a person to meet. The second sentence sharpens the diagnosis. "Warped" carries a moral geometry: a bending of what should be straight. It's not that people are simply nicer to you; it's that their niceness is contaminated, laced with desire, rivalry, fear, or a hunger to be seen near the seen.
Coming from an actress who grew up adjacent to power and was then placed under the camera's unforgiving microscope, the quote reads as both confession and critique. Hollywood sells beauty as social ease; Bergen frames it as social distortion. The subtext is weary and precise: when you're treated as a symbol, you lose access to the unguarded versions of others - and, over time, to the unguarded version of yourself.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bergen, Candice. (2026, January 17). Beauty set up distance between other people and me. It warped their behavior. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/beauty-set-up-distance-between-other-people-and-46610/
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Bergen, Candice. "Beauty set up distance between other people and me. It warped their behavior." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/beauty-set-up-distance-between-other-people-and-46610/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Beauty set up distance between other people and me. It warped their behavior." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/beauty-set-up-distance-between-other-people-and-46610/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.












