"Because I had children relatively late - in my 40s rather than in my 20s - it wasn't anything I ever knew that I would do. It kind of happened to me: I met the right woman and we had children. It was a revelation because it suddenly makes me realize, 'Oh, I get it. Now I know what to do with the rest of my life.'"
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The line "I met the right woman" is doing quiet moral work. It shifts the story away from individual readiness (the modern self-help script) toward relational luck and timing. That's culturally pointed in an era that treats family as an achievement badge or a lifestyle brand. Strong's revelation isn't about babies being magical; it's about having his priorities forcibly re-authored. "Now I know what to do with the rest of my life" is less a Hallmark flourish than a confession of prior ambiguity. It's purpose discovered, not purpose performed.
Context matters: men in their 40s becoming fathers is increasingly normal, but still culturally coded as either delayed responsibility or elite option. Strong rejects both readings. He doesn't posture as the careerist who finally settles down, or the sage dispensing wisdom. He presents fatherhood as an existential edit - a new throughline that makes the rest of the plot cohere. The intent is plainspoken, but the effect is sharp: meaning arrives not through ambition, but through attachment.
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| Topic | New Dad |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Strong, Mark. (n.d.). Because I had children relatively late - in my 40s rather than in my 20s - it wasn't anything I ever knew that I would do. It kind of happened to me: I met the right woman and we had children. It was a revelation because it suddenly makes me realize, 'Oh, I get it. Now I know what to do with the rest of my life.'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/because-i-had-children-relatively-late-in-my-115099/
Chicago Style
Strong, Mark. "Because I had children relatively late - in my 40s rather than in my 20s - it wasn't anything I ever knew that I would do. It kind of happened to me: I met the right woman and we had children. It was a revelation because it suddenly makes me realize, 'Oh, I get it. Now I know what to do with the rest of my life.'." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/because-i-had-children-relatively-late-in-my-115099/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Because I had children relatively late - in my 40s rather than in my 20s - it wasn't anything I ever knew that I would do. It kind of happened to me: I met the right woman and we had children. It was a revelation because it suddenly makes me realize, 'Oh, I get it. Now I know what to do with the rest of my life.'." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/because-i-had-children-relatively-late-in-my-115099/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.





