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"Because I was extremely uncomfortable talking about sex with him at all and particularly in such a graphic way, I told him that I did not want to talk about these subjects"

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Discomfort does a lot of heavy lifting here, and Anita Hill knows it. The sentence is built like a legal record, but its power is emotional: she front-loads the felt reality ("extremely uncomfortable") and then tightens the screws with specificity ("particularly in such a graphic way"). That escalation matters. It quietly rebuts a common dodge in harassment narratives: that the complainant was merely prudish, vague, or retrospectively offended. Hill draws a clear line between ordinary awkwardness and a coercive, boundary-testing graphicness.

The phrasing is also strategic in a way only someone steeped in institutions would naturally choose. "With him at all" is doing prosecutorial work, establishing that the issue isn't a stray remark; it's the relational dynamic. Then she moves to action: "I told him". Not hinted, not implied, not laughed off. The point isn't just that the talk was unwanted; it's that consent was explicitly withdrawn. The clean, almost clinical diction ("these subjects") is another tell: she's translating intimate violation into language that can survive cross-examination, a survival tactic in spaces where women's credibility is treated as a debate prompt.

Context sharpens every clause. Hill's testimony during the 1991 Clarence Thomas hearings landed in a media ecosystem that punished women for being either too explicit (sensational) or not explicit enough (unprovable). This sentence threads that needle. It's a refusal and a record of refusal, designed to make the real scandal legible: not sex, but power insisting on access even after being told no.

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SourceAnita F. Hill, sworn testimony before the Senate Judiciary Committee on the nomination of Clarence Thomas, June 1991 (official Senate hearing transcript).
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Anita Hill

Anita Hill (born July 30, 1956) is a Professor from USA.

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