"Before, I was so stupid. But, you know, when you have friends who died on the street, you say, okay, let's calm down. It's not the kind of energy I want to have in life. I want to go slower, and longer"
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Then comes the pivot that gives the line its weight: “friends who died on the street.” He doesn’t soften it with euphemism or distance. “On the street” suggests exposure, precarity, the kind of death that feels public and preventable. For an actor, someone whose job runs on charisma and momentum, that image functions like a brake slam. The subtext is survivor’s math: your adrenaline doesn’t look cool when it’s measured against bodies.
The phrasing “you say, okay, let’s calm down” is tellingly casual, like self-talk after a near miss. No grand revelation, just a recalibration. He calls it “energy,” not “anger” or “violence,” which widens the scope: fame, ego, impulsiveness, the habit of living at maximum volume. “I want to go slower, and longer” finishes as a quiet manifesto against the industry’s default setting. It’s not ambition renounced; it’s ambition redirected toward endurance. The line reads like someone choosing a life that can actually be lived, not merely performed.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Martinez, Olivier. (2026, January 18). Before, I was so stupid. But, you know, when you have friends who died on the street, you say, okay, let's calm down. It's not the kind of energy I want to have in life. I want to go slower, and longer. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-i-was-so-stupid-but-you-know-when-you-have-13535/
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Martinez, Olivier. "Before, I was so stupid. But, you know, when you have friends who died on the street, you say, okay, let's calm down. It's not the kind of energy I want to have in life. I want to go slower, and longer." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-i-was-so-stupid-but-you-know-when-you-have-13535/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Before, I was so stupid. But, you know, when you have friends who died on the street, you say, okay, let's calm down. It's not the kind of energy I want to have in life. I want to go slower, and longer." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-i-was-so-stupid-but-you-know-when-you-have-13535/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.








