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"Before machines the only form of entertainment people really had was relationships"

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Coupland lands the line like a sly provocation: not a nostalgic hymn to “simpler times,” but a jab at how thoroughly we’ve outsourced distraction. “Before machines” reads less like a date stamp than a moral boundary, dividing human attention into two eras - one where boredom had to be metabolized socially, and one where it can be anesthetized on demand. The phrasing “only form of entertainment” is deliberately overstated, almost dare-you-to-argue. Of course people had games, stories, rituals. But Coupland’s exaggeration is the point: it reframes relationships not as sacred bonds, but as the original content feed.

The subtext is a little bleak and very Coupland: modernity didn’t just add new amusements; it altered what relationships are for. If companionship used to be a primary way to pass time, then friendship, romance, even family life carried an infrastructural role in daily survival against monotony. Machines - from TV to smartphones, from cars to streaming - don’t merely compete with people; they change the emotional economy. You can now dodge the awkward pauses where intimacy gets built, the long stretches where you learn someone’s rhythms because there’s nothing else to do.

Contextually, this is Generation X DNA: a writer obsessed with consumer tech as atmosphere, not gadgetry, and with the quiet grief of convenience. The line isn’t anti-technology so much as diagnostic. It suggests that when entertainment becomes frictionless, relationships stop being the default and start being one option among many - and that shift, more than any single device, is the real cultural plot twist.

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Coupland, Doug. (2026, January 17). Before machines the only form of entertainment people really had was relationships. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-machines-the-only-form-of-entertainment-49065/

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Coupland, Doug. "Before machines the only form of entertainment people really had was relationships." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-machines-the-only-form-of-entertainment-49065/.

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"Before machines the only form of entertainment people really had was relationships." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-machines-the-only-form-of-entertainment-49065/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Doug Coupland

Doug Coupland (born December 30, 1961) is a Author from Canada.

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