"Before my grandpa built his own church, we went to the neighboring town, and it was a white community. You know, up north, mostly middle European people and Indians, Chippewa Indians. We were welcome to that church, but once we got in, they didn't know what to do with us"
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Jones frames the scene with plain, almost documentary detail: a neighboring town, a white community, "mostly middle European people and Indians". That specificity matters. It undercuts any lazy binary of North-as-enlightened, South-as-racist. This is the North, and still the rules of belonging are policed - not only by exclusion, but by confusion, by the inability to place someone in the expected hierarchy. "They didn't know what to do with us" is the sound of a community realizing its idea of welcome was abstract, not practiced.
The most telling subtext is the pivot to self-determination: "Before my grandpa built his own church..". The church isn’t just a building; it’s an institution engineered to remove the daily burden of being handled, managed, or politely misplaced. For a Black family, and for Jones as an actor who later mastered rooms with his voice, this early memory explains an entire cultural strategy: when inclusion is conditional and awkward, you build a space where you’re not a complication. You’re the norm.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jones, James Earl. (n.d.). Before my grandpa built his own church, we went to the neighboring town, and it was a white community. You know, up north, mostly middle European people and Indians, Chippewa Indians. We were welcome to that church, but once we got in, they didn't know what to do with us. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-my-grandpa-built-his-own-church-we-went-to-85099/
Chicago Style
Jones, James Earl. "Before my grandpa built his own church, we went to the neighboring town, and it was a white community. You know, up north, mostly middle European people and Indians, Chippewa Indians. We were welcome to that church, but once we got in, they didn't know what to do with us." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-my-grandpa-built-his-own-church-we-went-to-85099/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Before my grandpa built his own church, we went to the neighboring town, and it was a white community. You know, up north, mostly middle European people and Indians, Chippewa Indians. We were welcome to that church, but once we got in, they didn't know what to do with us." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-my-grandpa-built-his-own-church-we-went-to-85099/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.





