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Daily Inspiration Quote by Emma Goldman

"Before we can forgive one another, we have to understand one another"

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Goldman’s line doesn’t offer forgiveness as a feel-good virtue; it treats it as a political act with prerequisites. “Before” is the operative word. She’s not praising grace so much as warning against cheap absolution: the kind that smooths over conflict without touching the structures, motives, and injuries that produced it. In an era when the state, the press, and polite reformers routinely framed radicals as monsters, “understand” doubles as a demand to see people in full social context rather than as headlines or threats.

The subtext carries Goldman’s lifelong suspicion of moral shortcuts. Forgiveness, in her world, can be a weapon: a way for the powerful to declare a conflict resolved while keeping the terms of power intact. If you “forgive” the exploited without understanding the pressures that shaped their choices, you’re not being generous; you’re being condescending. If you ask the harmed to forgive without understanding what was taken from them, you’re managing their pain for social convenience. Understanding, here, isn’t sentimental empathy. It’s analysis: tracing cause and effect, looking squarely at coercion, poverty, patriarchy, state violence.

The line also pushes against the era’s moralistic binaries, where people were sorted into the deserving and the depraved. Goldman insists that reconciliation starts with curiosity rigorous enough to unsettle your own righteousness. She’s smuggling a radical ethic into a simple sentence: if you want peace between people, you have to interrogate the world that made them enemies.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Goldman, Emma. (2026, January 17). Before we can forgive one another, we have to understand one another. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-we-can-forgive-one-another-we-have-to-46477/

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Goldman, Emma. "Before we can forgive one another, we have to understand one another." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-we-can-forgive-one-another-we-have-to-46477/.

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"Before we can forgive one another, we have to understand one another." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-we-can-forgive-one-another-we-have-to-46477/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Emma Goldman

Emma Goldman (June 27, 1869 - May 14, 1940) was a Activist from Lithuania.

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