"Before you try to keep up with the Joneses, be sure they're not trying to keep up with you"
About this Quote
Bombeck wrote as the wry witness of late-20th-century American domestic life, when prosperity got packaged into visible props: the bigger house, the newer car, the right kitchen. Her journalism traded in the intimate pressure points of middle-class life, and this quote distills that era's mood: aspiration as a social performance staged in driveways and living rooms. The joke isn't just that comparison is pointless; it's that the whole measuring system is unstable. The Joneses aren't a fixed standard. They're a moving target with their own insecurities, debts, and late-night regrets.
The subtext is quietly radical: opt out. Not by preaching minimalism, but by exposing the scammy feedback loop underneath it. If everyone is chasing everyone, then no one is leading, and the finish line is imaginary. Bombeck's genius is how she smuggles critique inside a chuckle, giving readers permission to question the script without sounding sanctimonious.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
|---|---|
| Source | Erma Bombeck — Wikiquote entry (attributed quote listed on the Erma Bombeck page). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bombeck, Erma. (2026, January 15). Before you try to keep up with the Joneses, be sure they're not trying to keep up with you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-you-try-to-keep-up-with-the-joneses-be-31106/
Chicago Style
Bombeck, Erma. "Before you try to keep up with the Joneses, be sure they're not trying to keep up with you." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-you-try-to-keep-up-with-the-joneses-be-31106/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Before you try to keep up with the Joneses, be sure they're not trying to keep up with you." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/before-you-try-to-keep-up-with-the-joneses-be-31106/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








