"Being a housewife and a mother is the biggest job in the world, but if it doesn't interest you, don't do it - I would have made a terrible mother"
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The subtext is classic Hepburn: self-knowledge as a form of rebellion. By admitting she "would have made a terrible mother", she refuses the flattering lie that every woman is naturally suited to caretaking. It's also a preemptive strike against the culture that punishes women for opting out by calling them selfish or incomplete. She doesn't ask for permission; she offers a pragmatic standard: don't take on a life-defining responsibility out of pressure or performance.
Context matters. Hepburn's star persona was built on independence, athleticism, and a kind of patrician refusal to play "likable". In an era when actresses were expected to soften into domestic respectability off-screen, she turned her private choices into a public argument: reverence for motherhood and rejection of compulsory motherhood can coexist. The line still lands because it respects the work without romanticizing the obligation.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hepburn, Katharine. (2026, January 17). Being a housewife and a mother is the biggest job in the world, but if it doesn't interest you, don't do it - I would have made a terrible mother. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-a-housewife-and-a-mother-is-the-biggest-job-26286/
Chicago Style
Hepburn, Katharine. "Being a housewife and a mother is the biggest job in the world, but if it doesn't interest you, don't do it - I would have made a terrible mother." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-a-housewife-and-a-mother-is-the-biggest-job-26286/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Being a housewife and a mother is the biggest job in the world, but if it doesn't interest you, don't do it - I would have made a terrible mother." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-a-housewife-and-a-mother-is-the-biggest-job-26286/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





