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Motherhood Quote by Katharine Hepburn

"Being a housewife and a mother is the biggest job in the world, but if it doesn't interest you, don't do it - I would have made a terrible mother"

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Hepburn cuts clean through two competing American myths: that motherhood is a sacred destiny and that ambition outside the home is a betrayal of womanhood. She grants the role its due - "the biggest job in the world" is a deliberately respectful phrase, a nod to the unpaid labor that keeps families (and economies) running. Then she detonates the expectation in the next breath: "but if it doesn't interest you, don't do it". The word "interest" is the needle here. Not "ability", not "morality", not "duty" - interest. She frames motherhood as a choice shaped by temperament, not a compulsory identity.

The subtext is classic Hepburn: self-knowledge as a form of rebellion. By admitting she "would have made a terrible mother", she refuses the flattering lie that every woman is naturally suited to caretaking. It's also a preemptive strike against the culture that punishes women for opting out by calling them selfish or incomplete. She doesn't ask for permission; she offers a pragmatic standard: don't take on a life-defining responsibility out of pressure or performance.

Context matters. Hepburn's star persona was built on independence, athleticism, and a kind of patrician refusal to play "likable". In an era when actresses were expected to soften into domestic respectability off-screen, she turned her private choices into a public argument: reverence for motherhood and rejection of compulsory motherhood can coexist. The line still lands because it respects the work without romanticizing the obligation.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hepburn, Katharine. (2026, January 17). Being a housewife and a mother is the biggest job in the world, but if it doesn't interest you, don't do it - I would have made a terrible mother. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-a-housewife-and-a-mother-is-the-biggest-job-26286/

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Hepburn, Katharine. "Being a housewife and a mother is the biggest job in the world, but if it doesn't interest you, don't do it - I would have made a terrible mother." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-a-housewife-and-a-mother-is-the-biggest-job-26286/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Being a housewife and a mother is the biggest job in the world, but if it doesn't interest you, don't do it - I would have made a terrible mother." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-a-housewife-and-a-mother-is-the-biggest-job-26286/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Katharine Hepburn (May 12, 1907 - June 29, 2003) was a Actress from USA.

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