"Being a mother adds another emotional dimension, a feel for children that I didn't have before I had one. They were a pain before"
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The intent is partly comic self-defense, partly cultural correction. Walters frames motherhood as an acquired sensibility, not a preset. That matters because celebrity narratives about parenting often function as moral branding: motherhood as instant enlightenment. Her subtext says: I wasn't defective; I was childless. Empathy arrived through proximity, responsibility, and the daily intimacy of care, not through some mystical gene.
Contextually, as an actress whose public image often leans warm, accessible, and wry, this is also reputation management in reverse: she uses mild shock to sound more trustworthy. It validates an audience that feels guilty for not swooning over children, while still honoring the real transformation motherhood can trigger. The joke isn't at kids' expense as much as it's at society's insistence that women perform pre-installed tenderness on demand.
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Walters, Julie. (2026, January 16). Being a mother adds another emotional dimension, a feel for children that I didn't have before I had one. They were a pain before. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-a-mother-adds-another-emotional-dimension-a-129717/
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Walters, Julie. "Being a mother adds another emotional dimension, a feel for children that I didn't have before I had one. They were a pain before." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-a-mother-adds-another-emotional-dimension-a-129717/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Being a mother adds another emotional dimension, a feel for children that I didn't have before I had one. They were a pain before." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-a-mother-adds-another-emotional-dimension-a-129717/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








