"Being around people with whom you feel a connection, on many levels, not just a professional one, is very relaxing. Your ears are more open to someone who is not a cantankerous bastard"
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Her intent isn’t to romanticize camaraderie so much as to name a practical truth about listening. “Your ears are more open” reframes collegiality as a technical advantage: emotional safety becomes better timing, clearer direction, less defensive acting, fewer power games. In an industry obsessed with hierarchies - stars, directors, producers, crews - she’s pointing out how quickly bad attitude taxates the whole machine. People stop offering ideas. Notes get filtered through fear. Performances tighten.
There’s also a quiet boundary here. She’s not praising niceness as a moral virtue; she’s describing it as an efficiency. Connection isn’t a kumbaya extra, it’s the condition that makes vulnerability possible on demand. And the insult lands because it punctures the myth of the “difficult genius.” Bisset suggests the opposite: the truly professional person is the one who doesn’t make everyone else brace for impact.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bisset, Jacqueline. (2026, January 18). Being around people with whom you feel a connection, on many levels, not just a professional one, is very relaxing. Your ears are more open to someone who is not a cantankerous bastard. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-around-people-with-whom-you-feel-a-23416/
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Bisset, Jacqueline. "Being around people with whom you feel a connection, on many levels, not just a professional one, is very relaxing. Your ears are more open to someone who is not a cantankerous bastard." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-around-people-with-whom-you-feel-a-23416/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Being around people with whom you feel a connection, on many levels, not just a professional one, is very relaxing. Your ears are more open to someone who is not a cantankerous bastard." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-around-people-with-whom-you-feel-a-23416/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.









