"Being around people with whom you feel a connection, on many levels, not just a professional one, is very relaxing. Your ears are more open to someone who is not a cantankerous bastard"
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Bisset is selling a workplace philosophy with the blunt candor of someone who’s spent decades on sets where “professionalism” can be code for ego management. The first sentence drapes itself in softness - “connection,” “many levels,” “relaxing” - the language of chemistry and ease that actors trade in because the work is exposed and collaborative. Then she spikes it with that perfectly unvarnished closer: “cantankerous bastard.” It’s not just a punchline; it’s a diagnosis. The subtext is that craft doesn’t flourish under constant low-grade hostility, and that talent is routinely held hostage by temperament.
Her intent isn’t to romanticize camaraderie so much as to name a practical truth about listening. “Your ears are more open” reframes collegiality as a technical advantage: emotional safety becomes better timing, clearer direction, less defensive acting, fewer power games. In an industry obsessed with hierarchies - stars, directors, producers, crews - she’s pointing out how quickly bad attitude taxates the whole machine. People stop offering ideas. Notes get filtered through fear. Performances tighten.
There’s also a quiet boundary here. She’s not praising niceness as a moral virtue; she’s describing it as an efficiency. Connection isn’t a kumbaya extra, it’s the condition that makes vulnerability possible on demand. And the insult lands because it punctures the myth of the “difficult genius.” Bisset suggests the opposite: the truly professional person is the one who doesn’t make everyone else brace for impact.
Her intent isn’t to romanticize camaraderie so much as to name a practical truth about listening. “Your ears are more open” reframes collegiality as a technical advantage: emotional safety becomes better timing, clearer direction, less defensive acting, fewer power games. In an industry obsessed with hierarchies - stars, directors, producers, crews - she’s pointing out how quickly bad attitude taxates the whole machine. People stop offering ideas. Notes get filtered through fear. Performances tighten.
There’s also a quiet boundary here. She’s not praising niceness as a moral virtue; she’s describing it as an efficiency. Connection isn’t a kumbaya extra, it’s the condition that makes vulnerability possible on demand. And the insult lands because it punctures the myth of the “difficult genius.” Bisset suggests the opposite: the truly professional person is the one who doesn’t make everyone else brace for impact.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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