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"Being natural is one of the most irritating poses I know in people"

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The slap here is in the word “pose.” Theroux takes a quality we’re trained to admire - naturalness, authenticity, the unforced self - and exposes it as performance. “Being natural” isn’t presented as a state of grace; it’s a strategy. The line needles a particular modern vanity: the person who works hardest to look like they’re not working at all. It’s the literary version of “I woke up like this,” delivered with a raised eyebrow.

The intent is less to sneer at sincerity than to puncture the social power of claiming it. “Natural” has always been a credential, a way to win trust without argument. If you can convince the room you’re unfiltered, you get to smuggle in your preferences as facts and your temperament as truth. Theroux’s irritation is aimed at that manipulation, at the moral bullying that can come with it: if I’m “just being myself,” then your discomfort becomes your problem.

As a novelist - a professional fabricator - Theroux also knows how constructed every voice is. The subtext is an insider’s warning: spontaneity can be as curated as style, and the loudest insistence on “no pose” is often the biggest pose of all. The line works because it turns a compliment into a tell. It makes “natural” sound less like innocence and more like a costume worn so convincingly that everyone is expected to stop noticing the seams.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Theroux, Alexander. (2026, January 17). Being natural is one of the most irritating poses I know in people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-natural-is-one-of-the-most-irritating-poses-40083/

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Theroux, Alexander. "Being natural is one of the most irritating poses I know in people." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-natural-is-one-of-the-most-irritating-poses-40083/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Being natural is one of the most irritating poses I know in people." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-natural-is-one-of-the-most-irritating-poses-40083/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Alexander Theroux (born October 17, 1940) is a Novelist from USA.

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