"Being offended is part of being in the real world"
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The intent is blunt normalization. Offense isn’t proof that something has gone wrong; it’s proof that you’re interacting with other minds, other histories, other thresholds. Subtext: a lot of “I’m offended” is really “I’m entitled to control the room.” Love’s career has been a long case study in how quickly women who are loud, messy, or ambitious get recast as threats. When she says offense is “part of” reality, she’s pushing back against the fantasy that art, politics, or conversation can be both honest and perfectly soothing.
Context matters: this comes from a figure forged in the ’90s culture wars, when “authenticity” was sold as a brand and punished as behavior. The sentence is short, almost parental, but it’s also punk logic: friction is evidence of contact. Not all offense is equal, and harm still counts. Her point is narrower and sharper: discomfort isn’t automatically injustice, and a world without it is usually a world curated by the powerful.
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Love, Courtney. (n.d.). Being offended is part of being in the real world. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-offended-is-part-of-being-in-the-real-world-40772/
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Love, Courtney. "Being offended is part of being in the real world." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-offended-is-part-of-being-in-the-real-world-40772/.
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"Being offended is part of being in the real world." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-offended-is-part-of-being-in-the-real-world-40772/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.






