"Being on Oprah? You realize that there are a couple of types of audience members. There are like the cult people in the audience who are just crying before she gets on. And then there are the people who are playing it cool. I definitely was somewhere in the middle"
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The “playing it cool” crowd is the counter-ritual: a different kind of performance, signaling media literacy and self-control, as if to say, I’m not getting swept up. Gorder’s “somewhere in the middle” is the most revealing part. It’s not fence-sitting so much as a candid admission of how charisma operates: you can recognize the spectacle and still feel its pull. She’s describing a modern dilemma - wanting authenticity while being hyper-aware of how authenticity is staged, packaged, and rewarded on camera.
Context matters: as a designer, Gorder’s public persona trades in transformation narratives (before/after, revelation, uplift). Oprah is the apex platform for that genre, where emotional openness is the currency. Her line quietly acknowledges the cost of entry: you don’t go on Oprah without being asked, in some way, to believe.
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Gorder, Genevieve. (n.d.). Being on Oprah? You realize that there are a couple of types of audience members. There are like the cult people in the audience who are just crying before she gets on. And then there are the people who are playing it cool. I definitely was somewhere in the middle. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-on-oprah-you-realize-that-there-are-a-59216/
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Gorder, Genevieve. "Being on Oprah? You realize that there are a couple of types of audience members. There are like the cult people in the audience who are just crying before she gets on. And then there are the people who are playing it cool. I definitely was somewhere in the middle." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-on-oprah-you-realize-that-there-are-a-59216/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Being on Oprah? You realize that there are a couple of types of audience members. There are like the cult people in the audience who are just crying before she gets on. And then there are the people who are playing it cool. I definitely was somewhere in the middle." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/being-on-oprah-you-realize-that-there-are-a-59216/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.




