"Being over seventy is like being engaged in a war. All our friends are going or gone and we survive amongst the dead and the dying as on a battlefield"
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Old age, in Jerome's hands, isn’t a sunset scene; it’s triage. The line shocks on purpose, yanking “over seventy” out of the private realm of aches and into the public theater of mass loss. War is his chosen metaphor because it carries moral pressure: you don’t drift through a battlefield, you endure it, you make meaning under fire, you count bodies.
The intent is double-edged. On one level, Jerome is doing pastoral realism: he refuses the pious lie that holiness anesthetizes grief. On another, he’s weaponizing bluntness as spiritual instruction. If your friends are “going or gone,” then your priorities should be, too. The subtext reads like an ascetic’s argument against postponement: stop bargaining with time, stop treating faith as a retirement plan, because the calendar has already turned into casualties.
Context matters. Jerome lived in a late Roman world where disease, weak medicine, and political instability made death ordinary; reaching seventy was exceptional. His “battlefield” isn’t metaphorical in the way modern wellness culture uses combat language. It’s closer to reportage from a society where mortality sat at the table. And as a Christian writer steeped in memento mori, he’s also framing survival as its own burden: to “survive amongst the dead” is not victory, it’s responsibility, a strange witness role.
The sentence works because it denies sentimentality and offers a cold consolation: your loneliness isn’t a personal failing; it’s the cost of outlasting.
The intent is double-edged. On one level, Jerome is doing pastoral realism: he refuses the pious lie that holiness anesthetizes grief. On another, he’s weaponizing bluntness as spiritual instruction. If your friends are “going or gone,” then your priorities should be, too. The subtext reads like an ascetic’s argument against postponement: stop bargaining with time, stop treating faith as a retirement plan, because the calendar has already turned into casualties.
Context matters. Jerome lived in a late Roman world where disease, weak medicine, and political instability made death ordinary; reaching seventy was exceptional. His “battlefield” isn’t metaphorical in the way modern wellness culture uses combat language. It’s closer to reportage from a society where mortality sat at the table. And as a Christian writer steeped in memento mori, he’s also framing survival as its own burden: to “survive amongst the dead” is not victory, it’s responsibility, a strange witness role.
The sentence works because it denies sentimentality and offers a cold consolation: your loneliness isn’t a personal failing; it’s the cost of outlasting.
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| Topic | Aging |
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