"Believe in yourself and stop trying to convince others"
About this Quote
The intent is practical: conserve your energy. Convincing is performance, and performance is an endless contract with other people’s moods, gatekeeping, and taste. The subtext is harsher: needing to persuade is a sign you’ve already ceded power. If your sense of worth depends on winning a debate, you’re not creating; you’re campaigning. De La Vega is warning against turning your life into a pitch deck.
There’s also an implicit critique of the validation economy, long before likes and followers made it literal. Artists, especially those working outside institutions, get trained to explain themselves: to justify why the work matters, why they matter, why the risk is worth it. The quote rejects that bargain. It suggests that legitimacy isn’t something you negotiate into existence with the right audience; it’s something you practice privately and prove through repetition.
The line works because it’s a clean severing. It doesn’t promise you’ll be understood. It tells you that’s not the job.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Vega, James De La. (2026, January 17). Believe in yourself and stop trying to convince others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/believe-in-yourself-and-stop-trying-to-convince-55442/
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Vega, James De La. "Believe in yourself and stop trying to convince others." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/believe-in-yourself-and-stop-trying-to-convince-55442/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Believe in yourself and stop trying to convince others." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/believe-in-yourself-and-stop-trying-to-convince-55442/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








