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Daily Inspiration Quote by Shelley Duvall

"Bernard and I intend doing a lot with our lives and that includes actively helping other people. But how can we tell you our plans when we haven't finished making them yet?"

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Ambition, here, isn’t a manifesto. It’s a work-in-progress you’re not entitled to read. Shelley Duvall’s line carries the quiet steel of a young couple being pressed to perform their futures on demand: explain yourselves, justify yourselves, show the five-year plan. She answers with a disarming mix of idealism and refusal. Yes, she and Bernard want “a lot” and they even name the morally camera-ready part - “actively helping other people” - but she won’t let that pledge be converted into a tidy pitch deck.

The sentence structure does the cultural work. The first clause offers sincerity, almost to preempt cynicism: they’re not chasing success empty-handed; they’re linking achievement to responsibility. Then comes the pivot: “But how can we tell you…” The “you” matters. This isn’t abstract uncertainty; it’s a boundary drawn against an interviewer, an industry gatekeeper, a family elder, anyone treating a young woman’s aspirations as public property. By admitting the plans aren’t finished, she rejects the era’s obsession with coherent self-branding before the self has even had time to form.

In the context of an actress navigating a business that rewards charm and punishes opacity, the line reads like controlled candor. Duvall performs openness while protecting the private, messy part where a life actually gets made. It’s optimism without the cheap promise: a declaration of intent paired with the honesty that intentions take time to become real.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Duvall, Shelley. (2026, January 16). Bernard and I intend doing a lot with our lives and that includes actively helping other people. But how can we tell you our plans when we haven't finished making them yet? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bernard-and-i-intend-doing-a-lot-with-our-lives-84154/

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Duvall, Shelley. "Bernard and I intend doing a lot with our lives and that includes actively helping other people. But how can we tell you our plans when we haven't finished making them yet?" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bernard-and-i-intend-doing-a-lot-with-our-lives-84154/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Bernard and I intend doing a lot with our lives and that includes actively helping other people. But how can we tell you our plans when we haven't finished making them yet?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bernard-and-i-intend-doing-a-lot-with-our-lives-84154/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Shelley Duvall

Shelley Duvall (July 7, 1949 - July 11, 2024) was a Actress from USA.

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