"Besides, I think that when one has been through a boarding school, especially then, you have some resistance, because it was both fine comradeship and a fairly hard training"
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The phrasing matters. "Besides" signals an aside, a casual footnote that quietly elevates adversity into a credential. "Especially then" nods to a harsher early-20th-century regime without dramatizing it. That restraint is its own argument: you don’t earn resilience by narrating it loudly; you prove it by functioning.
Subtextually, Jacobsen is translating a personal biography into a professional ethic. Modernist architecture was obsessed with clarity, endurance, and the honest expression of structure. His boarding-school memory offers a human version of that: endurance forged not just through solitary toughness, but through group life - "fine comradeship" - that makes austerity tolerable and, eventually, useful.
Culturally, it’s a distinctly Scandinavian way of justifying rigor: not as individual domination, but as shared training toward competence. The sentimental part is there, but it’s disciplined too. He’s pointing to a paradox that runs through his work: comfort that doesn’t collapse into softness, elegance that’s been stress-tested.
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Jacobsen, Arne. (2026, January 16). Besides, I think that when one has been through a boarding school, especially then, you have some resistance, because it was both fine comradeship and a fairly hard training. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/besides-i-think-that-when-one-has-been-through-a-138040/
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Jacobsen, Arne. "Besides, I think that when one has been through a boarding school, especially then, you have some resistance, because it was both fine comradeship and a fairly hard training." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/besides-i-think-that-when-one-has-been-through-a-138040/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Besides, I think that when one has been through a boarding school, especially then, you have some resistance, because it was both fine comradeship and a fairly hard training." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/besides-i-think-that-when-one-has-been-through-a-138040/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.


