"Bite us once, shame on the dog; bite us repeatedly, shame on us for allowing it"
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Schlafly's intent is disciplinary, aimed less at the biter than at the audience's tolerance. "Shame on us" is a public scolding, the language of a movement organizer trying to harden resolve: stop rewarding bad behavior, stop trusting institutions or actors that have already shown their teeth, stop confusing patience with prudence. It's also a nudge toward policies of enforcement and boundary-setting. If the threat is instinctive and recurring, restraint starts to look naive; firmness starts to look like common sense.
The subtext is where her politics live. Casting the antagonist as a dog flattens motives and forecloses rehabilitation: you don't negotiate with a dog, you leash it, fence it out, or put it down. That metaphor primes listeners to see certain recurring conflicts - crime, geopolitical rivals, cultural opponents, bureaucracies - as problems of containment rather than persuasion.
In Schlafly's activist context, the line functions as a portable argument: a meme before memes, engineered for repetition at rallies and in mailers. It converts anger into self-reproach, then channels that shame into action - vote differently, resist compromise, demand consequences. The bite isn't just an event; it's a test of whether you'll finally stop being the kind of person who gets bitten twice.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schlafly, Phyllis. (2026, January 15). Bite us once, shame on the dog; bite us repeatedly, shame on us for allowing it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bite-us-once-shame-on-the-dog-bite-us-repeatedly-98125/
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Schlafly, Phyllis. "Bite us once, shame on the dog; bite us repeatedly, shame on us for allowing it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bite-us-once-shame-on-the-dog-bite-us-repeatedly-98125/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Bite us once, shame on the dog; bite us repeatedly, shame on us for allowing it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bite-us-once-shame-on-the-dog-bite-us-repeatedly-98125/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.









