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Nature & Animals Quote by Phyllis Schlafly

"Bite us once, shame on the dog; bite us repeatedly, shame on us for allowing it"

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A proverb gets a makeover here, and the makeover is the message. Schlafly takes the familiar logic of "fool me once" and swaps in a dog: not a schemer, not a con artist, but an animal doing what animals do. That shift quietly absolves the aggressor of moral complexity. The dog bites because it bites. The real indictment lands on the humans who keep extending a hand.

Schlafly's intent is disciplinary, aimed less at the biter than at the audience's tolerance. "Shame on us" is a public scolding, the language of a movement organizer trying to harden resolve: stop rewarding bad behavior, stop trusting institutions or actors that have already shown their teeth, stop confusing patience with prudence. It's also a nudge toward policies of enforcement and boundary-setting. If the threat is instinctive and recurring, restraint starts to look naive; firmness starts to look like common sense.

The subtext is where her politics live. Casting the antagonist as a dog flattens motives and forecloses rehabilitation: you don't negotiate with a dog, you leash it, fence it out, or put it down. That metaphor primes listeners to see certain recurring conflicts - crime, geopolitical rivals, cultural opponents, bureaucracies - as problems of containment rather than persuasion.

In Schlafly's activist context, the line functions as a portable argument: a meme before memes, engineered for repetition at rallies and in mailers. It converts anger into self-reproach, then channels that shame into action - vote differently, resist compromise, demand consequences. The bite isn't just an event; it's a test of whether you'll finally stop being the kind of person who gets bitten twice.

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TopicLearning from Mistakes
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Later attribution: Health Acceleration Kit for My Dog's Mind, Body and Soul (Zeljka Roksandic, Robert V. Gerard, 2010) modern compilationISBN: 9781880666265 · ID: y7F_F50qHhsC
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... Bite us once , shame on the dog ; bite us repeatedly , shame on us for allowing it . ” ~ Phyllis Schlafly Sometime around my 11th birthday , I had a shocking experience . When we moved into our new middle - class neighborhood in ...
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Schlafly, Phyllis. (2026, March 26). Bite us once, shame on the dog; bite us repeatedly, shame on us for allowing it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bite-us-once-shame-on-the-dog-bite-us-repeatedly-98125/

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Schlafly, Phyllis. "Bite us once, shame on the dog; bite us repeatedly, shame on us for allowing it." FixQuotes. March 26, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bite-us-once-shame-on-the-dog-bite-us-repeatedly-98125/.

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"Bite us once, shame on the dog; bite us repeatedly, shame on us for allowing it." FixQuotes, 26 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bite-us-once-shame-on-the-dog-bite-us-repeatedly-98125/. Accessed 28 Mar. 2026.

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Phyllis Schlafly (August 15, 1924 - September 5, 2016) was a Activist from USA.

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