"Bob Altman had this relaxed but serious attitude. Everybody loved him. I wanted him to adopt me!"
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“Everybody loved him” isn’t just a fan note; it’s a snapshot of a rare workplace ecology. Altman’s ensembles thrived on permission: overlapping dialogue, porous blocking, a sense that the camera is catching life rather than staging it. When the leader isn’t radiating anxiety, the group stops performing obedience and starts performing character. That’s why devotion is the right word, not respect.
Then Buscemi lands the line that gives the whole thing its sting: “I wanted him to adopt me.” It’s funny, but it’s also nakedly professional. In Hollywood, “adoption” means patronage, belonging, being brought into a creative family with repeat work and shared language. Buscemi is talking about craving a home - a director who doesn’t just cast you, but claims you. Under the joke is a truth about precarious careers: even acclaimed actors want someone to say, you’re safe here, now go be weird.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Buscemi, Steve. (2026, February 18). Bob Altman had this relaxed but serious attitude. Everybody loved him. I wanted him to adopt me! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bob-altman-had-this-relaxed-but-serious-attitude-83856/
Chicago Style
Buscemi, Steve. "Bob Altman had this relaxed but serious attitude. Everybody loved him. I wanted him to adopt me!" FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bob-altman-had-this-relaxed-but-serious-attitude-83856/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Bob Altman had this relaxed but serious attitude. Everybody loved him. I wanted him to adopt me!" FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bob-altman-had-this-relaxed-but-serious-attitude-83856/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.


