"Books, like friends, should be few and well chosen. Like friends, too, we should return to them again and again for, like true friends, they will never fail us - never cease to instruct - never cloy"
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Colton turns the supposedly solitary act of reading into a social ethic: choose carefully, commit deeply, and resist the prestige-hoarding impulse that treats books as trophies. The line has the moral snap of early 19th-century self-help before “self-help” existed, written in a culture where literacy and private libraries were rising markers of taste. He’s speaking to a newly expanding reading public tempted by volume for volume’s sake, and he counters with curation as character.
The craft is in the parallelism. “Books, like friends” is more than a simile; it’s a quiet rebuke. If you collect people for status, you’re shallow. If you collect books for status, you’re equally unserious. The repetition of “Like friends” tightens the analogy into a standard of behavior. Reading becomes not consumption but loyalty: you “return” rather than “move on.”
Colton’s subtext is also defensive. Human friendships are messy, contingent, sometimes disappointing. Books, he insists, offer the fantasy of companionship without betrayal: “never fail us.” That’s both consoling and a little suspicious, as if he’s trying to launder the need for control into virtue. Still, the phrasing sells it. The triple “never” works like a drumbeat, transforming a preference into a promise. Even the slightly archaic “cloy” (to sicken with excess) is a preemptive answer to the fear of repetition: the right book, like the right friend, deepens rather than dulls.
It’s an argument for rereading as maturity: not novelty, but calibration - returning to what tests you, steadies you, and keeps teaching after the first glow fades.
The craft is in the parallelism. “Books, like friends” is more than a simile; it’s a quiet rebuke. If you collect people for status, you’re shallow. If you collect books for status, you’re equally unserious. The repetition of “Like friends” tightens the analogy into a standard of behavior. Reading becomes not consumption but loyalty: you “return” rather than “move on.”
Colton’s subtext is also defensive. Human friendships are messy, contingent, sometimes disappointing. Books, he insists, offer the fantasy of companionship without betrayal: “never fail us.” That’s both consoling and a little suspicious, as if he’s trying to launder the need for control into virtue. Still, the phrasing sells it. The triple “never” works like a drumbeat, transforming a preference into a promise. Even the slightly archaic “cloy” (to sicken with excess) is a preemptive answer to the fear of repetition: the right book, like the right friend, deepens rather than dulls.
It’s an argument for rereading as maturity: not novelty, but calibration - returning to what tests you, steadies you, and keeps teaching after the first glow fades.
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| Topic | Book |
|---|---|
| Source | Aphorism attributed to Charles Caleb Colton, commonly found in his collection Lacon; or, Many Things in Few Words (associated source for the quotation). |
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