"Books, like friends, should be few and well chosen. Like friends, too, we should return to them again and again for, like true friends, they will never fail us - never cease to instruct - never cloy"
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The craft is in the parallelism. “Books, like friends” is more than a simile; it’s a quiet rebuke. If you collect people for status, you’re shallow. If you collect books for status, you’re equally unserious. The repetition of “Like friends” tightens the analogy into a standard of behavior. Reading becomes not consumption but loyalty: you “return” rather than “move on.”
Colton’s subtext is also defensive. Human friendships are messy, contingent, sometimes disappointing. Books, he insists, offer the fantasy of companionship without betrayal: “never fail us.” That’s both consoling and a little suspicious, as if he’s trying to launder the need for control into virtue. Still, the phrasing sells it. The triple “never” works like a drumbeat, transforming a preference into a promise. Even the slightly archaic “cloy” (to sicken with excess) is a preemptive answer to the fear of repetition: the right book, like the right friend, deepens rather than dulls.
It’s an argument for rereading as maturity: not novelty, but calibration - returning to what tests you, steadies you, and keeps teaching after the first glow fades.
Quote Details
| Topic | Book |
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| Source | Aphorism attributed to Charles Caleb Colton, commonly found in his collection Lacon; or, Many Things in Few Words (associated source for the quotation). |
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Colton, Charles Caleb. (2026, January 14). Books, like friends, should be few and well chosen. Like friends, too, we should return to them again and again for, like true friends, they will never fail us - never cease to instruct - never cloy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/books-like-friends-should-be-few-and-well-chosen-66940/
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Colton, Charles Caleb. "Books, like friends, should be few and well chosen. Like friends, too, we should return to them again and again for, like true friends, they will never fail us - never cease to instruct - never cloy." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/books-like-friends-should-be-few-and-well-chosen-66940/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Books, like friends, should be few and well chosen. Like friends, too, we should return to them again and again for, like true friends, they will never fail us - never cease to instruct - never cloy." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/books-like-friends-should-be-few-and-well-chosen-66940/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.







