"Bore, n. A person who talks when you wish him to listen"
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The subtext is chilly and modern. Conversation, in Bierce’s view, isn’t a warm exchange of selves; it’s a contested resource, with “listen” functioning as a demand disguised as virtue. The punch is in the asymmetry: the bore’s crime is “talks,” but the speaker’s desire is not to talk back - it’s to be listened to. Bierce makes vanity the hidden protagonist. You want him to listen because you’ve already cast yourself as the interesting one.
Context matters. As a late-19th-century journalist and satirist, Bierce lived inside a booming public sphere of speeches, lectures, parlor debates, and print commentary - an era addicted to opinion. The Devil’s Dictionary thrives on the suspicion that genteel manners are masks for selfishness, and this entry is a scalpel to that culture’s polite pretense. It’s also a proto-critique of today’s attention economy: the bore is whoever fails to read the room, which often means whoever fails to validate your preferred version of yourself. Bierce isn’t defending better conversation; he’s mocking the ego behind the complaint.
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| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Later attribution: Ambrose Bierce (Ambrose Bierce) modern compilation
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"Bore, n. A person who talks when you wish him to listen." FixQuotes, 27 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bore-n-a-person-who-talks-when-you-wish-him-to-3672/. Accessed 7 Apr. 2026.










