"Both my husband and I give a lot of ourselves in what we do because that is our public lives; but in my private life, I have an intrinsic right to be left alone"
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The real punch is in her pivot to rights language. “Intrinsic right to be left alone” doesn’t sound like a preference or a mood; it’s a moral claim. Intrinsic means it exists before public approval, before PR teams, before the comment section. She’s pushing back against an industry and a media ecosystem that confuses visibility with consent, especially for actresses whose bodies and relationships get treated as communal property. It’s also a quiet critique of the way “public life” metastasizes into a 24/7 surveillance state: paparazzi, tabloids, and now the endless, sticky afterlife of online speculation.
Contextually, Judd emerged during an era when female celebrities were routinely punished for privacy - cast as icy, difficult, or hiding something. This quote is her refusing that script. She offers generosity on the clock and autonomy off it, insisting that the line between the two isn’t hypocrisy. It’s adulthood.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Judd, Ashley. (n.d.). Both my husband and I give a lot of ourselves in what we do because that is our public lives; but in my private life, I have an intrinsic right to be left alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/both-my-husband-and-i-give-a-lot-of-ourselves-in-138734/
Chicago Style
Judd, Ashley. "Both my husband and I give a lot of ourselves in what we do because that is our public lives; but in my private life, I have an intrinsic right to be left alone." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/both-my-husband-and-i-give-a-lot-of-ourselves-in-138734/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Both my husband and I give a lot of ourselves in what we do because that is our public lives; but in my private life, I have an intrinsic right to be left alone." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/both-my-husband-and-i-give-a-lot-of-ourselves-in-138734/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.







