"Both of us played basketball, and I played tennis and my knees are done. Now if you ask us head-to-head who wins at golf, I'm asking for a couple of strokes"
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The pivot to golf is where Wilbon’s journalist instincts show. He frames competition as a social performance, not a pure contest. Golf, especially in media and political circles, is less about dominance than about access, bonding, and low-stakes hierarchy. “Head-to-head” sounds like bravado, but it’s immediately softened by “I’m asking for a couple of strokes” - a handicap request that doubles as a cultural wink. He’s signaling fairness while admitting decline, turning vulnerability into banter.
Subtext: the games change as you age, and so do the rules you’re allowed to ask for. Wilbon makes that negotiation sound light, but it carries a real truth about status, pride, and how men keep competing long after their bodies tell them to stop.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilbon, Michael. (2026, January 17). Both of us played basketball, and I played tennis and my knees are done. Now if you ask us head-to-head who wins at golf, I'm asking for a couple of strokes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/both-of-us-played-basketball-and-i-played-tennis-76526/
Chicago Style
Wilbon, Michael. "Both of us played basketball, and I played tennis and my knees are done. Now if you ask us head-to-head who wins at golf, I'm asking for a couple of strokes." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/both-of-us-played-basketball-and-i-played-tennis-76526/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Both of us played basketball, and I played tennis and my knees are done. Now if you ask us head-to-head who wins at golf, I'm asking for a couple of strokes." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/both-of-us-played-basketball-and-i-played-tennis-76526/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.




