"Both songs are really, really intense when it comes to performing them, and very draining at the same time"
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The interesting move is the pairing of “performing” with “draining.” Pop culture likes to treat virtuosity as effortless - the big note, the clean run, the polished smile. Cox lets the mask slip just enough to remind you that a great vocal is often athletic labor disguised as ease. She’s talking about stamina and technique, yes, but also about the psychic toll of certain narratives: heartbreak songs that ask you to reopen a wound on schedule, night after night, and make it sound freshly torn.
Context matters because Cox’s career sits at the intersection of R&B tradition and the demands of live spectacle. Power ballads and emotional showpieces are crowd-pleasers, often the very songs audiences insist on hearing. That creates a quiet bind: the performances that build a legacy can also deplete the person sustaining it. Her line carries an unglamorous honesty about labor in music - that catharsis isn’t free, it’s purchased in breath and burnout, and the artist is the one paying up front.
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"Both songs are really, really intense when it comes to performing them, and very draining at the same time." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/both-songs-are-really-really-intense-when-it-55665/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




