"Boys will be boys. And even that wouldn't matter if only we could prevent girls from being girls"
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The subtext is a grim little bargain: society can tolerate male unruliness as long as it can keep female autonomy in check. Frank, writing as a teenage girl, is acutely aware of how quickly girls are asked to shrink themselves - to be agreeable, modest, forgiving, quiet - especially when boys aren’t asked to grow up at the same rate. Her phrasing mimics the soothing cadence of a cliché, then detonates it, which is why it reads modern: she’s dissecting the rhetoric of normalization, how a folksy line can become a permission slip.
Context matters. Frank’s diary isn’t only a record of historical catastrophe; it’s also a document of adolescence under surveillance, where privacy and bodily change become public business. In that claustrophobic world, gender expectations don’t disappear; they tighten. The quote captures a bleak clarity: control doesn’t stop at political borders. It reaches into how a girl is allowed to exist.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Frank, Anne. (2026, January 15). Boys will be boys. And even that wouldn't matter if only we could prevent girls from being girls. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/boys-will-be-boys-and-even-that-wouldnt-matter-if-14288/
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Frank, Anne. "Boys will be boys. And even that wouldn't matter if only we could prevent girls from being girls." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/boys-will-be-boys-and-even-that-wouldnt-matter-if-14288/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Boys will be boys. And even that wouldn't matter if only we could prevent girls from being girls." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/boys-will-be-boys-and-even-that-wouldnt-matter-if-14288/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.





