"Bravery is being the only one who knows you're afraid"
About this Quote
The subtext is almost journalistic in its skepticism about public performance. We love courage stories because they resolve neatly: a brave person steps forward, a crowd applauds, history nods. Jones reminds you that the audience is mostly guessing. From the outside, bravery often looks like competence, or indifference, or even arrogance. The only person with the full transcript is the one doing it - which is why bravery is so easy to misunderstand and so hard to counterfeit. You can fake confidence; you can't fake the intimate knowledge of your own dread.
Context matters: a mid-century American journalist writing in a culture that prized stoicism, especially in men, and often treated fear as a moral failure. Jones offers an escape hatch that isn't sentimental. He doesn't redeem fear; he weaponizes it. Fear becomes the raw material that makes bravery legible - not to others, but to yourself. That's the sting and the comfort: courage isn't proven by how you look. It's proven by what you choose while fully aware of what it costs.
Quote Details
| Topic | Fear |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Mammoth Book of Comic Quotes (Geoff Tibballs, 2012) modern compilationISBN: 9781780337227 · ID: SGieBAAAQBAJ
Evidence: ... Bravery is being the only one who knows you're afraid . ERNEST HEMINGWAY The only courage that matters is the kind that gets you from one moment to the next . DOLORES IBÁRRURI FRANKLIN P. JONES MIGNON MCLAUGHLIN No man in the world has ... Other candidates (1) American Revolution (Franklin P. Jones) compilation36.3% because they did not mean it they were men who meant what they said and who said |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jones, Franklin P. (2026, January 13). Bravery is being the only one who knows you're afraid. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bravery-is-being-the-only-one-who-knows-youre-148177/
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Jones, Franklin P. "Bravery is being the only one who knows you're afraid." FixQuotes. January 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bravery-is-being-the-only-one-who-knows-youre-148177/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Bravery is being the only one who knows you're afraid." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/bravery-is-being-the-only-one-who-knows-youre-148177/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.










