"But be that as it may, I think it is more respectful to you that I should speak to you upon and do my best to interest you in the subject which has occupied me, and in which I am myself most interested"
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The key move is the pivot to respect. He frames plain speaking not as self-indulgence but as courtesy: it would be less respectful to dodge his real subject or dilute it into polite generalities. That’s a subtle rebuke to the social expectation that a speaker should entertain rather than immerse. In a culture where public lectures were part education and part performance, Cayley insists that seriousness is the compliment.
Then comes the quiet confession: "the subject which has occupied me, and in which I am myself most interested". He’s admitting bias up front - the work is not neutral, it’s chosen - while also modeling the engine of intellectual life: sustained attention. For a mathematician, "occupied" matters. Math isn’t inspiration on demand; it’s being lived with, returned to, worried at. His intent is to invite the listener into that long courtship, and his subtext is a promise: if you grant me patience, I’ll try to make my private intensity legible to you.
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Cayley, Arthur. (2026, January 16). But be that as it may, I think it is more respectful to you that I should speak to you upon and do my best to interest you in the subject which has occupied me, and in which I am myself most interested. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-be-that-as-it-may-i-think-it-is-more-119304/
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Cayley, Arthur. "But be that as it may, I think it is more respectful to you that I should speak to you upon and do my best to interest you in the subject which has occupied me, and in which I am myself most interested." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-be-that-as-it-may-i-think-it-is-more-119304/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But be that as it may, I think it is more respectful to you that I should speak to you upon and do my best to interest you in the subject which has occupied me, and in which I am myself most interested." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-be-that-as-it-may-i-think-it-is-more-119304/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.









