"But groundless hope, like unconditional love, is the only kind worth having"
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The intent isn’t to endorse delusion; it’s to attack a culture that demands receipts for every feeling. In late-20th-century America - and especially in the libertarian, cyber-utopian orbit Barlow helped shape - the future was something you willed into existence before you could prove it was possible. “Worth having” is the tell: he’s ranking hopes by their generative power, not their likelihood. A hope tethered to probability is just a forecast. A hope without grounds is an act of identity, a declaration that you’ll behave as if a better outcome can be made real.
The subtext is also defensive. By yoking hope to unconditional love, Barlow anticipates the eye-rolls: yes, it sounds soft. He insists softness is exactly the point. Unconditional love doesn’t guarantee safety; it risks betrayal. Groundless hope doesn’t guarantee success; it risks embarrassment. Both require choosing commitment over hedging, which is why they’re “worth having” only if you accept the cost: being the kind of person who refuses to let cynicism pose as intelligence.
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Barlow, John Perry. (2026, January 16). But groundless hope, like unconditional love, is the only kind worth having. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-groundless-hope-like-unconditional-love-is-83707/
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Barlow, John Perry. "But groundless hope, like unconditional love, is the only kind worth having." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-groundless-hope-like-unconditional-love-is-83707/.
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"But groundless hope, like unconditional love, is the only kind worth having." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-groundless-hope-like-unconditional-love-is-83707/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













