"But I do know focusing on the exterior doesn't make me happy. If I want peace and serenity, it won't be reached by getting thinner or fatter"
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Coming from Elle Macpherson - a woman professionally branded as a body - this reads less like a tidy self-help mantra and more like a quiet act of defiance. Modeling is an industry that turns the exterior into both product and proof of worth; it trains you to believe that happiness is one more booking, one more “improvement,” one more number. So when she says she knows focusing on the exterior doesn’t make her happy, the authority isn’t theoretical. It’s experiential, even corrective: she’s describing the end of a long experiment the culture keeps running on women’s bodies.
The intent is to redraw the map between control and calm. “Peace and serenity” are spiritual words, deliberately mismatched with the blunt, transactional language of “thinner or fatter.” That contrast does the work: it exposes how absurd it is to expect a moral or emotional payoff from physical alteration. The subtext is also an indictment of the treadmill - the idea that the goalposts move no matter which direction you go. Thinness isn’t liberation; neither is the performative “embrace” of weight gain. The trap is believing the body is the primary site of personal repair.
Context matters because Macpherson’s voice arrives with cultural baggage: decades of media that framed models as aspirational and therefore suspect when they speak about body image (“easy for you to say”). She sidesteps that by admitting what her career implies: the exterior can be perfected, curated, commodified - and still fail to deliver an internal life that feels settled. In a culture that sells transformation as therapy, she’s naming the grift.
The intent is to redraw the map between control and calm. “Peace and serenity” are spiritual words, deliberately mismatched with the blunt, transactional language of “thinner or fatter.” That contrast does the work: it exposes how absurd it is to expect a moral or emotional payoff from physical alteration. The subtext is also an indictment of the treadmill - the idea that the goalposts move no matter which direction you go. Thinness isn’t liberation; neither is the performative “embrace” of weight gain. The trap is believing the body is the primary site of personal repair.
Context matters because Macpherson’s voice arrives with cultural baggage: decades of media that framed models as aspirational and therefore suspect when they speak about body image (“easy for you to say”). She sidesteps that by admitting what her career implies: the exterior can be perfected, curated, commodified - and still fail to deliver an internal life that feels settled. In a culture that sells transformation as therapy, she’s naming the grift.
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