"But I don't know if people are meant to be together. You have to have a lot in common, choose well and be really fortunate. It's not like you're sprinkled with fairy dust. You have to believe that love will be there when you need it"
About this Quote
Notice how she stacks requirements - "a lot in common", "choose well", "be really fortunate" - mixing agency with randomness. The subtext is quietly unsentimental: compatibility is partly craft (taste, judgment, effort) and partly weather (timing, health, money, the version of yourself you happen to be when you meet). Her fairy-dust image is a gentle insult to the myth industry that sells love as a cosmic entitlement. No enchantment arrives to absolve you of responsibility.
The most revealing turn is her final line: "believe that love will be there when you need it". She's not describing the first rush; she's talking about the boring, frightening moments when love gets audited - after the fight, during illness, in the long middle of life. Belief here isn't naive; it's an act of maintenance, a decision to treat love as durable even when the evidence is temporarily thin.
Coming from an actress - someone who professionally performs feeling - the statement lands as a backstage admission: the story isn't the relationship. The script ends on the kiss; real love begins when nobody's watching and you still show up.
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| Topic | Soulmate |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Danes, Claire. (2026, January 17). But I don't know if people are meant to be together. You have to have a lot in common, choose well and be really fortunate. It's not like you're sprinkled with fairy dust. You have to believe that love will be there when you need it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-know-if-people-are-meant-to-be-49937/
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Danes, Claire. "But I don't know if people are meant to be together. You have to have a lot in common, choose well and be really fortunate. It's not like you're sprinkled with fairy dust. You have to believe that love will be there when you need it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-know-if-people-are-meant-to-be-49937/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But I don't know if people are meant to be together. You have to have a lot in common, choose well and be really fortunate. It's not like you're sprinkled with fairy dust. You have to believe that love will be there when you need it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-know-if-people-are-meant-to-be-49937/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









