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Daily Inspiration Quote by Aaron Spelling

"But, I don't know, the violence, I can't even talk about. We don't do a lot of violent shows. When I started in television, breaking a pencil was a violent act"

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Spelling isn’t lamenting violence so much as clocking how the medium’s baseline has slid under our feet. The line opens with a stuttered shrug - “But, I don’t know” - a producer’s instinctive hedge before saying the impolite part out loud: television has learned to sell intensity by turning the dial past discomfort and calling it realism. His refusal to “even talk about” the violence reads less like prudishness than like brand protection. Spelling made glossy, aspirational TV where conflict was a cocktail-party weapon, not a body count; his empire depended on keeping audiences entertained, not pulverized.

The joke about “breaking a pencil” lands because it’s absurdly small, and that’s the point. He’s invoking an earlier broadcast code era when networks, advertisers, and censors treated aggression as a moral contagion. But he’s also revealing a craft truth: limitation forces invention. If a snapped pencil once had to carry the emotional freight of rage, writers and directors had to build tension through dialogue, pacing, and implication. When violence becomes easy to show, it can become lazy to use.

Context matters: Spelling’s career stretches from buttoned-up network melodrama to the post-cable landscape where “edgy” became a marketing category. His comment is a quiet act of resistance from a man who understood that taste is industrially engineered. It’s nostalgia with a producer’s edge: not “things were better,” but “the business taught viewers what to need, and now it’s hungry.”

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Spelling, Aaron. (n.d.). But, I don't know, the violence, I can't even talk about. We don't do a lot of violent shows. When I started in television, breaking a pencil was a violent act. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-know-the-violence-i-cant-even-talk-37200/

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Spelling, Aaron. "But, I don't know, the violence, I can't even talk about. We don't do a lot of violent shows. When I started in television, breaking a pencil was a violent act." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-know-the-violence-i-cant-even-talk-37200/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But, I don't know, the violence, I can't even talk about. We don't do a lot of violent shows. When I started in television, breaking a pencil was a violent act." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-know-the-violence-i-cant-even-talk-37200/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Aaron Spelling (April 22, 1923 - June 23, 2006) was a Producer from USA.

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