"But I don't really like to discuss Phil anymore"
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The intent is practical and pointed: stop granting him oxygen. "Don't really like" softens the refusal just enough to keep the exchange civil; "anymore" does the real work. It implies she once did discuss him - maybe because she had to, because the industry and the public required the story to pass through his name to be considered important. Now she is choosing a different center of gravity. It's not coyness, it's control.
The context matters: Ronnie's life with Phil was famously coercive, and Phil's later notoriety hardened the public appetite for lurid retellings. Her sentence resists that voyeurism. It also resists the romanticized "genius producer" narrative that turns women's pain into trivia and men's violence into footnotes. By refusing to elaborate, she denies the interviewer the easy arc: tragedy, spectacle, soundbite. What she offers instead is a quiet insistence that her legacy doesn't have to be a sequel to his.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Spector, Ronnie. (2026, January 15). But I don't really like to discuss Phil anymore. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-really-like-to-discuss-phil-anymore-81108/
Chicago Style
Spector, Ronnie. "But I don't really like to discuss Phil anymore." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-really-like-to-discuss-phil-anymore-81108/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But I don't really like to discuss Phil anymore." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-really-like-to-discuss-phil-anymore-81108/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







