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Creativity Quote by Ronnie Spector

"But I don't really like to discuss Phil anymore"

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A clean, almost throwaway sentence that lands like a slammed door. Ronnie Spector's "But I don't really like to discuss Phil anymore" is a masterclass in boundary-setting from someone the culture spent decades treating as an accessory to a bigger, louder male legend. The "but" signals she's answering a question she has heard too many times - the reflexive pivot interviewers make when they see her: not Ronnie, not her voice, not her survival, but Phil Spector, the producer-husband-tyrant whose myth has long elbowed her off her own stage.

The intent is practical and pointed: stop granting him oxygen. "Don't really like" softens the refusal just enough to keep the exchange civil; "anymore" does the real work. It implies she once did discuss him - maybe because she had to, because the industry and the public required the story to pass through his name to be considered important. Now she is choosing a different center of gravity. It's not coyness, it's control.

The context matters: Ronnie's life with Phil was famously coercive, and Phil's later notoriety hardened the public appetite for lurid retellings. Her sentence resists that voyeurism. It also resists the romanticized "genius producer" narrative that turns women's pain into trivia and men's violence into footnotes. By refusing to elaborate, she denies the interviewer the easy arc: tragedy, spectacle, soundbite. What she offers instead is a quiet insistence that her legacy doesn't have to be a sequel to his.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Spector, Ronnie. (2026, January 15). But I don't really like to discuss Phil anymore. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-really-like-to-discuss-phil-anymore-81108/

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Spector, Ronnie. "But I don't really like to discuss Phil anymore." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-really-like-to-discuss-phil-anymore-81108/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But I don't really like to discuss Phil anymore." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-really-like-to-discuss-phil-anymore-81108/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Ronnie Spector (August 10, 1943 - January 12, 2022) was a Musician from USA.

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