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Marriage Quote by Jeanne Tripplehorn

"But I don't think that it's a form of family that I would be comfortable in. I've found a way to this character and this family, but I still believe that a marriage is between two people and not seven or three"

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Tripplehorn walks a careful tightrope: she wants credit for empathizing with a character’s world without being drafted into endorsing it. The opening clause, “But I don’t think...,” is doing quiet PR work, a preemptive boundary set against the assumption that playing intimacy equals advocating it. That’s a familiar pressure on actresses in particular, who are often treated as moral spokespersons for their roles, not just workers interpreting them.

The phrasing “I’ve found a way to this character and this family” is actor-speak for craft as translation. She’s signaling that her route in wasn’t ideological agreement but emotional access: locate the human logic, the need, the rituals, the tenderness. “This family” also flattens the sensationalism. Polygamy becomes, in her mouth, not a tabloid structure but a domestic system with recognizable dynamics. That normalization is exactly what makes the next pivot land.

“Still” is the hinge. She reasserts a personal creed - “a marriage is between two people” - in a way that sounds principled, not punitive. The odd specificity, “not seven or three,” carries the subtext of a culture negotiating scale: once you detach marriage from two, how far does it stretch? It’s less a debate point than a gut-check, a line drawn at the moment where plural marriage stops being an abstract controversy and starts feeling like a crowded room.

Contextually, it reads like a response to a show (or role) testing mainstream comfort with alternative family structures. Her intent is to protect complexity on-screen while keeping her off-screen self legible to an audience trained to confuse portrayal with permission.

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Tripplehorn, Jeanne. (2026, January 15). But I don't think that it's a form of family that I would be comfortable in. I've found a way to this character and this family, but I still believe that a marriage is between two people and not seven or three. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-think-that-its-a-form-of-family-that-i-153554/

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Tripplehorn, Jeanne. "But I don't think that it's a form of family that I would be comfortable in. I've found a way to this character and this family, but I still believe that a marriage is between two people and not seven or three." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-think-that-its-a-form-of-family-that-i-153554/.

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"But I don't think that it's a form of family that I would be comfortable in. I've found a way to this character and this family, but I still believe that a marriage is between two people and not seven or three." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-dont-think-that-its-a-form-of-family-that-i-153554/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Jeanne Tripplehorn (born June 10, 1963) is a Actress from USA.

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