"But I have to be careful not to let the world dazzle me so much that I forget that I'm a husband and a father"
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The intent is plainspoken and quietly radical in a culture that treats constant availability as the price of relevance. Hancock isn’t moralizing about family values; he’s naming a real occupational hazard of the touring artist: the endless reinforcement loop of applause, access, and novelty. “The world” becomes a stand-in for the whole celebrity apparatus - airports and green rooms, admirers and invitations, the sense that you’re living at the center of things. That’s the dazzle. It’s not evil, just persuasive.
The subtext is that identity can be outsourced. When everyone around you responds to the public version of you, it’s easy to forget the private obligations that don’t clap back. “I have to be careful” signals discipline rather than guilt: a daily practice of returning to the roles that don’t come with a spotlight. Coming from Hancock - a boundary-crossing innovator who’s moved from acoustic jazz to funk to electronic experiments - it reads like a mature counterpoint to reinvention. Artistic freedom is thrilling; relational responsibility is grounding. The real virtuosity, he implies, is knowing when not to solo.
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Hancock, Herbie. (2026, January 15). But I have to be careful not to let the world dazzle me so much that I forget that I'm a husband and a father. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-have-to-be-careful-not-to-let-the-world-171178/
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Hancock, Herbie. "But I have to be careful not to let the world dazzle me so much that I forget that I'm a husband and a father." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-have-to-be-careful-not-to-let-the-world-171178/.
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"But I have to be careful not to let the world dazzle me so much that I forget that I'm a husband and a father." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-have-to-be-careful-not-to-let-the-world-171178/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.


