"But I have tried to go over it very carefully, not merely what the evidence is, but with psychoanalysts and psychologists, and I think we're just about all agreed that Lincoln and Speed did not have a homosexual relationship"
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The choice to invoke “psychoanalysts and psychologists” is telling. It borrows the aura of science to adjudicate a 19th-century relationship that survives mostly in letters, lodging arrangements, and the interpretive gaps between them. That appeal to therapeutic authority also smuggles in a modern framework while insisting on a definitive verdict. Donald wants the credibility of psychological expertise without the messiness of psychological uncertainty.
Then comes the real rhetorical muscle: “we’re just about all agreed.” Consensus is deployed as a substitute for disclosure. Who is “we”? Biographers? Gatekeepers? A scholarly in-group? The phrase implies that the respectable adults have already settled the matter, nudging readers to treat dissent as fringe or agenda-driven. It’s a remarkably contemporary move: not “here is the decisive document,” but “trust the process.”
The subtext is protective. Donald is writing in a period when the public meaning of homosexuality was still stigmatized and when Lincoln’s personal life was often treated as civic property. Declaring “did not have a homosexual relationship” reassures more than it proves, policing the boundary between historical inquiry and what American mythology is willing to entertain.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Donald, David Herbert. (2026, January 17). But I have tried to go over it very carefully, not merely what the evidence is, but with psychoanalysts and psychologists, and I think we're just about all agreed that Lincoln and Speed did not have a homosexual relationship. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-have-tried-to-go-over-it-very-carefully-not-42698/
Chicago Style
Donald, David Herbert. "But I have tried to go over it very carefully, not merely what the evidence is, but with psychoanalysts and psychologists, and I think we're just about all agreed that Lincoln and Speed did not have a homosexual relationship." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-have-tried-to-go-over-it-very-carefully-not-42698/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But I have tried to go over it very carefully, not merely what the evidence is, but with psychoanalysts and psychologists, and I think we're just about all agreed that Lincoln and Speed did not have a homosexual relationship." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-have-tried-to-go-over-it-very-carefully-not-42698/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

