"But I like to know that someone is stronger than I am. I want to be able to know that if I get tired, somebody is there to hold up the fort. I like knowing that I can't pick a refrigerator alone. God did not make me strong enough to do that"
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The subtext isn’t “women are weak.” It’s: I’m tired of being told empowerment equals solitary performance. Summer’s “someone stronger” reads less like submission than like a refusal of the lone-wolf fantasy. In a culture that fetishizes self-sufficiency, she’s arguing for the underrated relief of backup: partnership as infrastructure. “Hold up the fort” shifts the scene from romance to logistics, the unsexy work of keeping life from collapsing when you’re spent.
Context matters: Summer came up in an era that sold freedom on the dance floor while still policing women’s wants off it. Her candor pushes against a script where a female star must be invulnerable or ironic. Instead, she makes room for a desire that’s both practical and emotional: not a savior, just someone who can grab the other end of the fridge.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Summer, Donna. (2026, January 15). But I like to know that someone is stronger than I am. I want to be able to know that if I get tired, somebody is there to hold up the fort. I like knowing that I can't pick a refrigerator alone. God did not make me strong enough to do that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-like-to-know-that-someone-is-stronger-than-141098/
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Summer, Donna. "But I like to know that someone is stronger than I am. I want to be able to know that if I get tired, somebody is there to hold up the fort. I like knowing that I can't pick a refrigerator alone. God did not make me strong enough to do that." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-like-to-know-that-someone-is-stronger-than-141098/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But I like to know that someone is stronger than I am. I want to be able to know that if I get tired, somebody is there to hold up the fort. I like knowing that I can't pick a refrigerator alone. God did not make me strong enough to do that." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-i-like-to-know-that-someone-is-stronger-than-141098/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.










