"But if our sex would but well consider and rationally ponder, they will perceive and find that it is neither words nor place that can advance them, but worth and merit"
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The line is canny in its double address. On the surface, it's moral self-help for "our sex", urging women to "consider and... ponder" rather than chase status. Underneath, it's a critique of the system that forces women to play the game of place and words in the first place. Cavendish can't simply demand equal access to education, institutions, or public authority without inviting backlash. So she frames her challenge as rational, almost managerial: if women adopt the discipline of merit, the fraud of inherited privilege becomes visible.
"Words" carries extra charge coming from a writer. Cavendish knew language could be weapon and lifeline; she published under her own name, drawing ridicule for it. By downgrading "words" as a route to advancement, she isn't disowning rhetoric - she's separating substance from the social theater of eloquence, gossip, and credentialed talk. "Worth and merit" becomes both aspiration and indictment: a standard that exposes how rarely the world actually rewards women for either.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cavendish, Margaret. (2026, January 16). But if our sex would but well consider and rationally ponder, they will perceive and find that it is neither words nor place that can advance them, but worth and merit. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-if-our-sex-would-but-well-consider-and-119969/
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Cavendish, Margaret. "But if our sex would but well consider and rationally ponder, they will perceive and find that it is neither words nor place that can advance them, but worth and merit." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-if-our-sex-would-but-well-consider-and-119969/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But if our sex would but well consider and rationally ponder, they will perceive and find that it is neither words nor place that can advance them, but worth and merit." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-if-our-sex-would-but-well-consider-and-119969/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.









