"But if we learn to think of it as anticipation, as learning, as growing, if we think of the time we spend waiting for the big things of life as an opportunity instead of a passing of time, what wonderful horizons open out!"
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The intent is gently corrective, aimed at people who feel their real life is always about to begin. Neagle offers an alternative plot: the "big things" aren’t the only story beats that count. The subtext is almost stern in its optimism. If waiting is misery, it’s partly because we’ve agreed to treat it as dead time. She’s proposing an ethics of delay: boredom isn’t inevitable; it’s a choice we make when we refuse to use the interval.
There’s also a very mid-century confidence here - the belief that self-improvement is accessible, that horizons "open out" if you adjust your posture toward time. It’s aspirational, but not naive. The trick is that "opportunity" doesn’t arrive; it’s manufactured in the meantime. Neagle’s line flatters the reader with agency, then challenges them to earn it. Waiting becomes not a pause in life, but the workshop where life gets built.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Neagle, Anna. (2026, January 15). But if we learn to think of it as anticipation, as learning, as growing, if we think of the time we spend waiting for the big things of life as an opportunity instead of a passing of time, what wonderful horizons open out! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-if-we-learn-to-think-of-it-as-anticipation-as-140246/
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Neagle, Anna. "But if we learn to think of it as anticipation, as learning, as growing, if we think of the time we spend waiting for the big things of life as an opportunity instead of a passing of time, what wonderful horizons open out!" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-if-we-learn-to-think-of-it-as-anticipation-as-140246/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But if we learn to think of it as anticipation, as learning, as growing, if we think of the time we spend waiting for the big things of life as an opportunity instead of a passing of time, what wonderful horizons open out!" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-if-we-learn-to-think-of-it-as-anticipation-as-140246/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.












