"But I'm someone who, the more afraid I am, the more I want to do it to get the fear over with"
About this Quote
The key phrase is "to get the fear over with". That's the subtextual tell. She's not claiming fear disappears through enlightenment; she's describing a craftsperson's approach to anxiety as wasted time. Fear becomes an annoying pre-show loop you can shorten by walking onstage. It's exposure therapy with a deadline, the emotional equivalent of ripping off the Band-Aid because you still have a song to finish.
Coming from Weil, who helped write the American pop canon alongside Barry Mann ("You've Lost That Lovin' Feelin'", "On Broadway"), the quote also maps onto the realities of making hits: pitching, rewriting, hearing "no", watching tastes change, and doing it again anyway. Pop success is built on repeated public risk, and the only way to survive that churn is to treat discomfort as part of the job, not a referendum on your talent. The intent isn't motivational poster cheer. It's a credo for artists who understand that fear doesn't mean you're failing; it means you're close to the edge where new work happens.
Quote Details
| Topic | Fear |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Weil, Cynthia. (2026, February 16). But I'm someone who, the more afraid I am, the more I want to do it to get the fear over with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-im-someone-who-the-more-afraid-i-am-the-more-158029/
Chicago Style
Weil, Cynthia. "But I'm someone who, the more afraid I am, the more I want to do it to get the fear over with." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-im-someone-who-the-more-afraid-i-am-the-more-158029/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But I'm someone who, the more afraid I am, the more I want to do it to get the fear over with." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-im-someone-who-the-more-afraid-i-am-the-more-158029/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.





